It takes TWO to make relationship works, and take ONE to fail it.

There is no such things as Love at first sight. Well, at least not in my dictionary.

I believes in understanding a person and know him well enough, then let the love grows.

That goes the same to guys too. Especially guys.. or rather I would say, matured guy.

Most matured guys (those in the mid 30s) I met don't believes that you can just fall in love with someone so easily. Hello, being practical, that's true.

So, please don't expect a mid 30s guy will just fall in love and want to spend the rest of his life with you, just because he enjoyed spending time and probably love f***ing you. Don't think he loves you unless he says it to you.

Looking back, I realized, only when we were younger, we believes in falling in love.., so easily. I guess Love is 'easy' during that time.

At this age, we understands that Love comes with commitments etc etc.....

Previously, Love is just words...

Now, I heard a lot of... 'I likes you. I likes spending time with you. Let's hang out more...'

I actually agrees to this thinking. I think its more realistic.

The other new words I learned is 'Non-Exclusive'. Well, of coz I used this words a lot in my business, but in personal life... hmmm... something new. But, I don't take it as a shock or surprise. I am fine with it.

I guess, with maturity, we becomes more realistic.

One scary realistic that I learned throughout the years is... 80% of married men are not loyal, in their own way. They might not be involved in full-fledge affairs or anything of that sort... but I think they did things that they are not supposed to in certain ways. I am skeptical that I will get a husband whom fall in the 20% category....

I don't feel pathetic or pity or anything to be thrown the truth of this matter. It makes me knows how to manage expectation and ask myself on what I really wants and what I can accepts.

Relationship is work. Marriage is work. If both are unable to commit to make it 'work'... its going to be very tough time ahead.

So all my friends... just remembers, 'it takes TWO to make relationship works...'