Me-time

I read a friend's entry today, which talks about spending time alone, and I find it interesting. So, instead of leaving a long list of comment on her blog, I decides to do an entry here.

I totally agree with her saying that we should not feel bad or weird for spending time by ourself. But, sometimes, too much time to ourself is not too healthy too la. Of coz, same as her, I am anything but anti-social. Come-on, I almost never say no to going out with friends (people that I really like spending time with la)... and I think, most of time, I am the one that ajak le.....

Lately, since my break-up, I had been spending a lot of 'me-time'. And, I am actually liking it, and getting used to it...., so am afraid, if nobody comes along soon, I might ended up can't be bothered to find another partner.... (Friends... HELP!).

Well, I am not as capable as my friend whom can watch movie alone. Probably at home yes.., but not in cinema. But trust me, unless you have a reliable other half, or else, its really difficult to find people to watch movie with you. I don't mean just anybody la.... but friends whom you want to watch with.

I had this bad experience recently. I wanted to watch 'Over Her Dead Body', and I asked at least 5 friends before finally one accompany me and never regret, cause we laughed our hearts out. Then, few weeks ago, I wanted to watch a play and asked at least 5 friends also and NONE can make it. So sad.......

I wished I have the courage as my friend having, then I would just go..
'Heck... just watch alone lo.....'

Probably when we have other half, they are 'obligated' to watch with us or do things with us when we don't feel like doing it ourself. And also 'obligated' to leave us alone when we need 'me-time'.

Perfect huh........ hmmmmm.....