P : How's love life?
Me : Well.... still the same. Not seeing anyone.....
P : Why?
Me : Well.... guess didn't meet anyone that I have clique with?
P : How could that be......
Me : Maybe I am afraid to fall in love again??
P : Well...., I am not afraid. And as a matter of fact, I have a few potential candidates...
And, this come from someone whom just broke up few months ago........
And, someone whom was so in love with the ex...
What makes a person move on so fast?
Do they really move on? Or they just build a shield to protect themselves?
Can we really stop loving someone so soon....?
Or, what is the definition of soon? or slow? or too long?
Coming from someone "experience" like me...... the conclusions are :-
1 - You can't just stop loving someone.....
2 - But you can recover by moving from LOVE to HATE...
3 - But, do you want to HATE the person???
4 - When you used to LOVE him/her so much?
I seriously don't think he moved on.... I think he is just building the SHIELD to protect himself.
But who cares ya.... most importantly, we are comfortable with the way we chose to protect ourselves and move on......
There is no Right or Wrong when it comes to way to HEAL...
And, I don't think there is an IDIOT GUIDE TO HEAL.....
All my dear friends.... don't worry, I am fine. I am just thinking out LOUD......
But what worries me is...... am I really scared to fall in love again?
Well.... I don't think so.... I think I am just waiting for THE ONE to come along....
They say... you will now when you meet one...... True or False?
i have thought what to comment.. but midway while reading your blog i was too hungry that i lost my train of thoughts....wOOOpsieee... TBC.. ;P
ReplyDelete1. What makes a person move on so fast? Do they really move on? Or they just build a shield to protect themselves?
ReplyDelete>> Diff ppl are just diff. Some take one week, months, years and for some never. For P, perhaps he/she had gone thru so much that the break actually made him/her realise who she/he really was and finally lifted up his/her burden. Hence, time to move on.
2. Can we really stop loving someone so soon....?
Or, what is the definition of soon? or slow? or too long?
>> If someone has the answer, kindly enlighten us. Is there even a definite answer for this??
3. Why would you need to move on from love to hate? Wouldn't it make life even more difficult for you? Cause you are still stuck and suffering - that is not what you call moving on. Unless you let go willingly and generally be happy for that someone - truthfully and genuinely.
4. Why wait for that someone to come along? Even if that someone do come along, are you willing to open up your heart and give the person a shot? On this part, it is YOU that calls for the shot babe...
The above is just merely my personal opinion and it may or may not necessarily be true/agreeable to the general public. =P
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I am actually totally agree with you. Well, guess Life is just complicated....
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately it is easier to move on by hating someone. We are all humans at the end of the day. Ever notice it is more difficult to let go when there is no "third party"? It takes maturity and foresight of BOTH parties to realise that they are not meant for each other. Afterwhich what then? Settle for second best I guess. But what is second best? Each person has their own strengths and weaknesses. Again, very critically, we as humans fail to judge own "Needs" and "Wants" time and time.
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