3S

I saw an article in The Star recently...., saying about the rising of 3S women in China.

The 3S stands for : Single, Seventies & Stuck....

I totally don't agree with it...... even if we are born in year Seventies.... and still Single.... that doesn't mean we are STUCK!

Even we are stuck..... we are stuck by choice...... even if its not by choice, we don't feel pathetic!

Initially, I do feel "sad" (or I don't know how to describe it ah.....) that I am actually in my 30 already.

Of coz, when am younger, I envision that I will be married happily with at least a kid by the time I reaches 30.

But, we changes as we grow. We sees things differently. Probably due to our experience.

Back to about being sad for being 30.... few days ago, I was chatting with a friend and she say.... Yeah, we are 30, and Let's Celebrate it!

And that statement actually cheers me up..... and I was thinking...
Ya, what the heck for being 30???
So what if I am 30 and still Single?

I am happy. I am very close with my family and I have a bunch of close friends, and a complicated & crazy best friend.

So, forget about the 3S' pathetic opinion.... I think it must be written by someone whom is Married, and probably in his 30s also, but not as successful as the Single 30s women.....

So, out of "red-eye"...., he labeled all the women in their 30s.... 3S!

I say..... Let's celebrate for being 30!!!

We are Young, Sexy, Successful, Attractive & Energetic.....